Week 42 - I’m coming out…
Last Monday I woke up to being tagged in a post on LinkedIn from someone I actually haven’t spoken with but who follows me.
The post was about taking the leap. Facing her fears and leaving her job to embark on her own journey of being a coach. And she tagged me in it as her inspiration.
This was a huge moment for me.
Secretly (or maybe not so secretly) I’ve been desiring to be that person that inspires people to quit the 9-5 and build their own life on their own terms, especially those that want to leave to become a coach.
Seeing this confirmed that I've been creating this brand but not at all claiming it for myself.
Because I've been afraid to just come out and say it though
I'm afraid the corporate world will shut me out
I'm afraid it will limit me and my potential
But then it hit me that in being afraid I’m the one limiting me!
So here it is:
Yes, I work with leaders in corporate AND most of them want to leave at some point AND most of them want to be coaches. Some pretty imminently and others not as much. I do NOT force anyone to leave their job but instead help them see that what they want (ie freedom) IS possible. And it can look fucking awesome.
Like my morning on that same Monday:
I woke up with my little Nacho puppy, stared at the early morning sun with my coffee as he and I walked in nature, did a bit of Linkedin-ing and then went to the beach for Wim Hof breath work and an ecstatic movement class, came home to host a my group accountability session which was SO expansive, my roommate gave me a sound bath in the afternoon, and we ended the day at the beach for sunset and dinner.
That’s a NORMAL day in my life in Costa Rica.
And less than 2 years ago that life only existed in my imagination.
But whatever you can imagine can become reality.
You just have to get clear on what you want.
And that’s where I help.
I help you get rid of the old stories, and blockers preventing you from having the life you desire.
So here's where you can start to get clarity on what you really desire. This is a template I use often:
It is [DATE] and I have….
I see…[what do you see around you in this new reality]
I hear…[what are the typical sounds in this new reality]
I feel…[what is the energy of this new reality]
I achieved this goal because I am…[who did you have to be to create this new reality]
I used to talk about the life I'm now currently living for yeeeeaaars before I made it become true. So much so that my coach of 8 years was finally like "You know....you keep envisioning the exact same thing...it sounds like this is really really important to you." And she was right, it was and I wasn't doing anything about it.
And truthfully, I didn't have any inspiration. I didn't know anyone living the life I wanted. I only knew people in the corporate world. Living the corporate life.
I read this in a book recently and holy shit it hit me hard. It said if you're 30, and you've done everything the way the rest of the world has, then look at the people around you who are 50...that will be your life in 20 years. Does that excite you or does that scare you?
And that was always the thing for me, when I looked at the people ahead of me in title and years of service at work, I didn't want to be them. So then why am I still on this train track going full steam ahead into a life I don't even desire?
Fear. Fear and no inspiration. That's why.
So I'm ready to step into this role. The role of being your inspiration to create success on your own terms. To get off that train track that no longer serves you and to jump to your own track. And build it step by step. There is no blueprint. And that's the exciting part. You get to create whatever your mind can think of.
If that terrifies you. Then you're not ready for this work.
But if that excites you (and scares you a bit) then you're ready. You're getting this email because you are ready. You've read this email to this point because you are ready.
And ready means that you're ready to claim this new identity for yourself. That you're ready to let go of what got you here and you're ready to step into what will get you to the life that's been waiting for you.
This kind of work FIRES ME UP!!
If you're 30+ and in a corporate role and deeply desiring freedom, or if you've already stepped into solopreneurship but you've lost the spark and fire then this call is for you. The call to get support to walk you through all the crap holding you back and walk you into the life you really desire.
Answer the call by booking an exploration call with me
If you're getting stuck on the template I shared above, drop me a line. Happy to help!
I want you to have the life you want. Nothing lights me up more than seeing people live boldly.
